Sure, we have discussed it often. He knows of my interest but he doesn't know I have become a skeptic. He is quite adamant about what they saw (he was with another), and when he retells the story, of course I have to reconsider my stance...especially because we are close and I doubt very much he would lie to me, or shy away from telling me he was not telling me true after all this time.
My cousin's experience aside. One of the problems I have with eye witness accounts stems from experience. Back in my BF interest peak, I had a friend of a friend approach me because he knew of my interest. He had a story he wanted to relay to me so I listened. Without remembering all the details, he was out with friends for a weekend on what he referred to as a 'bushwhacking' weekend. Their thing was to drive out to the bush on some logging road and randomly park their vehicle, put on their packs, and just plow through the bush and find a place to set up camp for the weekend (actually sounds like a decent way to spend a weekend...but I digress). His claim was they saw what they thought was BF. At the time he seemed very detailed in his recounting of the experience. At that time I had been in communication with an actual BF researcher who was living in Calgary at the time (I have seen him post here), so I asked if I could relay the story and pass on their contact info because said investigator may be interested in contacting them. With their approval I did just that. Problem was, when they were contacted they totally denied the story and pretended to not know what the guy was referring too. When I found this out, well of course I looked like a chump (even bigger than I am today). When I asked them why they had done so they again denied the story to me, all the while having been totally passionate and convincing of the story in the first place. Go figure.
A) Either the whole story was bogus and they got scared when someone seeming to act in a official manner contacted them.
B )The whole story is true and again they got scared when someone attempted to talk to them about it.
C) The group was not convinced at what they saw as a whole, one member reached out and the rest pulled him back in. "You told WHO? You idiot!"
Separating the wheat from the chaff can be tricky, and one can only guess someone's motives as to why they would want to make up a story like that. Obviously I would want to see some form of collaborating evidence to back up their story. I.e. A trackway, a photo, something.........
Or I may choose to just go out there and do a "snoop and poop".......no harm, no foul.
I don't think any anecdotal story should change anyone's mind. Either you've had a compelling experience of your own or you haven't. But if you have I suppose these stories do at least interest you in taking a harder look.
I had a lady in Colville tell me her sighting story, all the while in the back ground her husband belittled her. She has lived there all her life and I believe she easily can tell the difference between a Bear, a Moose butt and a upright Ape. And she is absolutely adamant about what she saw. And the area she saw it in is well.........."good" country. It's vast, underpopulated and borders the Kootenai region of BC. It's my personal opinion that if she was telling a lie, with all of the verbal beatings she was taking from her husband about the story? She would have dropped it a long time ago. It's just one of those things.........it's either compelling to you or it's not.
It always seems black and white in here........either your a true believer or a staunch non believer, well I honestly think there is some gray area in between those two posts. I do not know for a fact they are out there, but I find it compelling enough to go look, and carry something with me that if lightning does strike? I'll be prepared.
Also, I think skeptics are more compelled than what they lead onto.........I mean why this subject? There are a million fanciful subjects out there to go onto a forum and proclaim them to be utter fantasy. But they continual come back to this one over and over again. In many ways they are exactly like the true believer, willing to hash on this subject against one other I guess forever......... Batman needs a Joker sort of scenario.
I would guess that what compels them is that they feel sort of let down by it all. And that they need to feel like they are getting some sort of revenge on the subject that sucked them in..........yanno what? I get it. I do.......it's the reason why I'm doing what I'm doing. I feel let down as well. But having a experience of my own I cannot explain, I simply want to cut through the baloney, the three ring circus if you will known as Bigfootdom, and get right to the chase. Science has said all along..........what they need. It's time Bigfootdom listens or else continue stumbling around in the dark looking like buffoons.
And if my time is non productive? At least I enjoyed the ride........