I recently posed a question on an adjacent thread, and thought it bears greater examination in an independent one. It concerns the definition of goals in this community. Namely: What does your ultimate personal success in this field look like?
The underlying utility of this answer always seems obvious to me. If you don't keep your end goal in mind, you're unlikely to either get there in the most direct and pleasing way, or even to recognize it when you get there.
Fair is fair though, so I'll go first.
As someone who is reasonably convinced of the existence of this animal, my success is defined by me to include at least one of these:
1. Have an encounter of my own someday.
2. Have a close, trusted personal acquaintance have the same.
3. Have objective evidence accepted by the professional scientific community (a "squishy" definition, I'll acknowledge).
In a larger sense though, I'm succeeding in my goals each time I view what I consider to be a compelling piece of evidence. Some have already achieved #'s 1 and/or 2 on my list. Some may think #3 has been achieved as well...although I differ on that. Some we know have a success that is defined as "body on slab", and you can't get more concrete than that, I don't think.
But, the skeptical community here. How do you define your personal success goals, if you do?
Truly, many of you don't entertain the real possibility of existence at all, or so you tell me. I'm doubting very much you could share any of my definitions, but you might. Your personal safety is assured here if you do want to "come out". Your definition is your own, and I don't have standing at all to question your choice, only to try and understand them. I lay no traps or snares here and I'd encourage others to declare the same intent.
(BTW, I'm not at all interested in how you define "failure", for either you or me, or for anyone else. The world is full of people who are quick to offer that up, and it frankly doesn't intrigue me at all)