SWWASSP, it saddens me to hear you might give up on this particular bunch.... My guess is that the intimidation tactics are related to your use of the camera, and that, if you stopped using the camera -- even just temporarily -- you would see a change in behavior. Wouldn't that be an interesting experiment, to see if they get friendlier again, when you leave the camera behind? You don't have to abandon the camera forever, but it would be a good basic litmus test of your true relationship with them. It would tell you something about their true feelings about you.
Isn't it worth knowing that? Their true feelings?
And then, when you knew how they really felt, you could re-evaluate/re-think the camera thing from a position of greater knowledge. If they continued to be grumpy, that would certainly affirm that starting over with another clan might be a good plan. If they stop being grumpy, well, then, that's an interesting situation, isn't it? If they stop being grumpy at that point, it might be worth thinking longer and harder about ways of working with them that pleased you both.
I don't think you're ever going to find a bunch of BF who are publicity hounds. They're all going to get turned off by the camera, at some point. So the real question becomes, who likes you enough to possibly start overlooking this behavior of yours? This gang might be that gang. I think they really like you. Not all BF like all people. The connections you've made might be really precious, and worth a little extra thinking to preserve.
Just my thoughts.