Great post, Sunflower. I totally agree.
I was writing this when your post came in:
I love it that Lightheart and LCB are both concerned about exposing them to danger, but I believe those concerns are unfounded. Each one knows exactly who we are, the moment we step foot on their territory. (It's an energetic, sixth-sense thing they have.) Each one knows each of our personalities, and who s/he does or doesn't like, and who s/he is willing (and not willing) to engage with. So there's no danger they will like you guys, and then mistakenly assume that everyone else is equally trustworthy, and then open their arms wide to some creep who will end up hurting them.
So if there is some part of you that is pulled to trying to communicate with them, you can do that without fear of what you might "train" them to do or think. They are not trainable in that way. They look at each one of us and decide what they want to do.
As Sunflower says, they are the boss of the woods, and I would add, of themselves.