It's a double edged meaning here. Having repeat dreams of BF is a pretty significant clue they are trying to communicate with that person. BF isn't juggling watermelons or doing something nutty. He/she is communicating directly to the dreamer in all of these accounts. I'm no Carl Jung or any form psychologist nor have I read any dream science (including the Buddhist or lucid kind) but I have been extensively assembling interesting accounts from experiencers of all kinds on FB. I have no less than 25-30 dreamer accounts that have similar patterns. How credible is this random sampling? To me it seems pretty consistent since I vet these sources as best as I reasonably can on social media. I don't accept crackpot-speak and as anyone can judge from my comments on this forum, I have a low threshold for crackpot-speak.
What I'm saying is there IS a relationship between dreams of BF and experiences/dreams of aliens. We can't go into all the details here (rabbit hole alert) BUT, BF is quite distinct. BF is not kidnapping people and implanting them with trackers, doing medical experiments. BF has no sophisticated tech at all and uses things in nature to try and speak to people it thinks will be receptive to them for whatever reason. BF is respectful of people in these dreams but also can be highly persistent in its own way. Aliens just do what they want regardless of what the experiencer wants.
So I think these phenomena are different entities but using similar techniques to interact with humans while they are sleeping or in a trance-like state (which seems induced by the aliens, not so with BF who waits for the target to go to sleep before establishing contact - in most cases). The mindpseak aspects are also a factor here but a little bit different than dreams because the experiencer is awake when it happens and can interpret things differently.