What great reports, Kiwakwe!
I think your responses were great. To acknowledge the maker of the noise, as you did ("I'm going this way"), and to do it as respectfully and politely as you did, is not something most people can manage -- not when caught by surprise like that. I think it's so cool you responded that way. And it's cool that you did go back -- and again, were so polite about it. You're the kind of person they like to hang with.
Totally! I'm sure that WAS an "oops". They're good, but they're not perfect.
And you didn't read too much into anything. You clearly have a lot of experience in the woods -- so you can trust that, if you hear something that you know can't be attributed to anything but a BF, you've heard a BF.
You can even trust these things if you haven't spent a lot of time in the woods. All you need is an open heart and a curiousity about what's around you.
I didn't grow up in the woods and know nothing about them, but when I started visiting the woods on a regular basis a few years ago, because of my new interest in some of their inhabitants, I learned really fast.
A few nights ago, I paid a quick visit to a 50-acre parcel of land owned by a friend of mine. I've only been there a few times, so I'm not that familiar with the neighborhood, so to speak. I stood in the same spot for about half an hour, watching a light in the forest. I was pretty sure I was looking at eyeshine, but I also knew there was a house somewhere nearby, so I stared at the light very intently, waiting to see what would happen. After about 10 minutes, the "light" began moving slowly upward (a few inches? a few feet? it was hard to tell how close I was to the light) and then stopped.
That was the confirmation I needed that the light was housed in a body not too different from mine, although very likely much taller, and probably with hair all over it.
But here's the thing: I knew before I saw the movement what I was looking at. Something in us just knows. And it doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure these things out. You don't have to have lived in the woods all your life to sense that something is out of place or is unusual in some way. We were built to notice these things.
All you have to do is pay attention (which you clearly do).
Thanks for sharing your adventures with us, Kiwakwe. I'm sure that, if you keep visiting the spots you've mentioned -- and you keep imitating that chickadee (what a great idea) while drinking your tea -- you'll have a lot MORE stories to share in very short order.